By Ramona Tate, Senior Case Facilitator
In 2021, Ernie graduated from a juvenile residential group home with a very structured setting into supported living. When Ernie first arrived in SLS, his independent skills were minimal at best. He could not perform a task, make a choice, or a decision without asking for permission. His medication administration was completed for him, any activities within his home could not be done without approval.
Ernie didn’t understand he could have money in his wallet and spend it as however he wanted. When he would go out into the community he was always transported by others as he never experienced public transportation. Ernie stayed in his bedroom with the door closed 80% of the time and would seldom engage his staff in conversation.
Now two years later in 2023, with support, Ernie has truly grown with his skills and desire to be independent. As of today, Ernie accesses the community whenever he wants. He has learned to ride the public bus, keep track of his own spending money, and administer his medications with minimal guidance.
He has heartfelt conversations with his staff and enjoys talking about his interests, hopes, and dreams. Ernie has discovered that Compass events are safe and fun. He would be extremely disappointed if he ever missed one. This year Ernie stepped outside his comfort zone and attended Carville Camp.
This past week I was so proud of him when he spoke up and introduced himself to Pastor Denny. His introduction of himself was so precious when he said, “Hi I’m Ernie, also known as EZO”, which was the first time he spoke up in a group setting. It brought great warmth to this SCF’s heart to see how much growth Ernie has made.
It just goes to show you that hard work, determination, and grit will pay off and make a difference for the people you support. Ernie is happy healthy and safe living in his own apartment within a community of friends and support.